Are you forced to co-parent with a narcissist?
Or stuck in a high-conflict, custody battle with a narcissist?
Grace says:
“Have hope. I write for moms who are forced to co-parent and/or stuck in a high-conflict, custody battle with a narcissist. If this is you, you are not alone!
My books can validate what you might be experiencing and give you creative ways to improve your co-parenting conditions. In my books, I include all my tips, tools, and strategies for moms to grab onto like life rafts. Sometimes, it’s solely about survival and staying afloat.
I believe that there are healthy attitudes we can adopt, mindsets to make solid, sanity to hold onto, as well as, beneficial perspectives to take that can help us to endure this dilemma and survive a custody battle. We can learn to use what I call “skillful-means” and strategies to navigate and neutralize the narcissist. (Find my video program!)
Learn all that you can from my “survivor-wisdom” because knowledge is power. Let my chapters be like self-help, “story medicine.” My goal is to leave you with tidbits of wisdom with lots of encouragement. Know that you can endure this (with support) and be resilient in the face of the many challenges when dealing with a narcissist. The truth is that… our love for our child/children is bigger than the narcissist.
Believe in yourself as a mom. Remember to learn the valuable lessons in all the pain and problems and come out of this smarter and stronger than before!
You can: 1. outgrow the narcissist, 2. become immune to his attacks, and 3. move on with your life—to thrive. Better yet, and so can our precious children. Use wisdom. Lead with love.”
*Suggestion: Read my book series in the order written for full understanding.
Book 1: Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: 7 Self-Rules to Stay Sane
Book 2: How To Fight a Narcissist In Family Court and Win
Book 3: Co-parenting with a Sociopath: Survival and Sanity Guide
Book 4: How To Survive a Custody Battle with a Narcissist: When the Family Courts Force You to Co-Parent
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: 7 Self-Rules to Stay Sane (A Survivor’s Story)
” Loved this book!
I loved this book! I could relate to everything she has gone through. Very easy to read and hard to put down! She has other books as well and I suggest if you haven’t read her books that you do so!! Very well written and helpful! “
“Excellent guidance on co-parenting with a narcissist!!
The guidance and tips offered in this book resonated with me. As someone who has four children with a narcissist, it was helpful to remind myself of what is important, as well as how to keep stable by reading the Self-Rules. Each Self-Rule is significant. My anxiety was so high during the marriage that it took sometime after the divorce for it to lessen. These Self-Rules resonated with me for how I would stay sane during my divorce and through the co-parenting of my kids. I recommend! “
How-To Fight a Narcissist in Family Court and Win:
Super-Smart Strategies for Success
“Get. The. Book.
This book is the first time I realized this: I’m not alone. I’m not crazy. And I’m not the only one. I WISH I had known this at that time. But even so, I’d recommend this book to those in a narcissistic relationship. AND I’d recommend it to those of us who THINK we are past the pain and insecurities. This book gives you real-life action steps to take control of your life and realize your worth. No fluff. Real actionable steps you can take. And these steps come from the author, who has actually been through the chaotic, confusing, numbing experience of being in a relationship with a narcissist with whom you have a child.
Highly recommend. Stop thinking about it. If you find just ONE nugget (and you’ll find more) that you can hold onto, you will be on your way to creating your new reality, the life you’ve been dreaming of. Well worth the read. “
Co-Parenting with a Sociopath:
Survival and Sanity Guide
“So validating
This book was a life-saver! It helped me to relax into my innate survival skills and find ways to cope with a crazy-man while staying safe. It’s important for us mothers to keep our safety and our child’s safety in the front of our minds while going through high conflict divorces, break-ups or the inevitable co-parenting disasters. Grace’s guidance was so valuable to me and validated what I knew I had to do to navigate the dangerous waters of dealing with a sociopath. I now have a healthier focus and stronger boundaries with myself on what I will and won’t do. I can’t change my ex, but I realized that I can change how I approach this terrifying situation. I was encouraged to get the help and support I needed. This book is an added blessing!”
How To Survive a Custody Battle with a Narcissist
Stuck in a high-conflict, family court custody battle?
Have hope that you can overcome this dilemma with knowledge, the right focus, and tools—and come out of this stronger than before.
Get Grace’s survivor wisdom. Learn all that you can!
After over a decade of struggle, in intolerable co-parenting conditions, Grace found ways to use what she refers to as “skillful means” to divert her narcissistic ex’s anger. Courageously, she stepped into her rights and power using several support systems and targeted tools. Combining this with her legal strategies, she was able to reach a place of peace for her and her child to thrive. Now, she shares with her readers what it took to achieve a level of fairness and protection for her and her young child.
Tame the Narcissist!
10 Keys for Better Co-parenting
to Create Peace and Protection
Using Strategy & Skillful-Means
Sometimes, when dealing with a narcissist, we mistakenly/unknowingly trigger the beast. Then, their fragile ego roars! We either have to endure narcissistic abuse, post-separation abuse, or legal abuse, or worse—we see our kids take the brunt of the narcissistic rage and his games. These manipulative mammals want to win. The narcissist has many tricks, tactics, and traps that they can set for victims. But, we survivors can use tools, skills, and strategies to stay in the ring for our children. We don’t have to leave the circus completely or leave our precious children behind in the unfairness of it all. We can use wisdom.
If you have children caught in the crossfire of a family court battle, would you stick them in the cage with an angry lion? No. Be smart and calculating. Take some time to self-reflect on your part in the equation of dealing with their narcissistic dad. Use Grace’s survivor wisdom to better the conditions for yourself. Be encouraged to seek support, use skills, heal, and overcome the narcissist.